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In a moment, Dong Yun Yoon lost his entire family on Monday when a military jet crashed into his home here in San Diego, killing his wife, two infant daughters and his mother-in-law who had recently come from Korea to help care for the newborn.

How does a person live through something like this?  During this interview on CNN, Dong Yun Yoon, surrounded by his church community, reveals his deep faith in Christ even as he reveals his broken heart.  When his voice breaks and he talks about his daughters, it is utterly crushing:

I can’t believe they’re not here right now.

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Let’s just get this out of the way up front.  I might be the only pastor I know who hasn’t yet read The Tipping Point or Blink by Malcom Gladwell (although, given the proclivity of those in ministry circles to quote Gladwell, I kind of feel like I already have). Now…

I heard Gladwell on NPR yesterday talking about his new book Outliers: The Story of Success.  I started listening because he was trying to answer the question, Why do Asian kids outperform American kids in math? Of course, they were talking about Asian kids from Asian countries, and how cultural influences shape different skill sets and values — as an Asian American who scored higher on the verbal portion of the SAT than the math section, I am living proof that there is no inherent Asian predisposition to being good at math.

In any case, what really caught my attention was a brief aside where Gladwell spoke about why Korean airlines sometimes have trouble in the cockpit of their planes.  Basically, it boils down to Korean culture’s excessive deference to authority and the inability to speak plainly to the boss.

Which got me thinking…

Sounds a lot like Korean churches.

I believe in the recovery and redemption of our God-given identities and cultures.  However, there are certain things that need to get tossed.  Despite the obligatory church-speak about humility and servanthood, many of us have firsthand experience with the “I’m the boss and you are my minions” ethos of many Korean churches.  I know of a senior pastor who had the nerve to stand before a congregation of several hundred and offer this disturbing syllogism:  God wants us to serve Him; we serve God by serving the church; and we serve the church by serving the pastor.  Um, right.

Picture that church as the airplane Gladwell describes:  The plane is heading the wrong way or, worse, about to crash.  The pilot, important and in charge, steadfastly maintains the course while happily ordering people around.  All the while everyone knows, but is too afraid to say, that something isn’t right.

Of course, in the end, this will to dominate and assert authority affects churches of all cultures and ethnic backgrounds.

Although I’m not a type-A, aggressive sort, I can see how this mentality of the pastor having the final say has influenced my thinking as well.  I want to do my part in ending this cycle of excessive deference to authority and, instead, guide our church into becoming a community of mutual submission, of humble love and service.

DJ Chuang posted today about who mainstream media outlets could contact to be a voice for the Asian American community.

I am glad to hear that our voices might be included in mainstream media discussions, rather than being an afterthought, especially with all of the negative portrayals of Asian Americans in the media these days (as wimpy nerds, well-intentioned but hapless, or just basically non-existent).

However, given the incredible diversity of Asian American communities it would be hard to imagine someone who could speak for all of us.  Hopefully, as spokespeople for Asian Americans begin to be raised up, we can address some of these issues.

Actually, I think DJ would be a great candidate himself!

Well, it’s that time of the year again…

Halloween is here, and so are the Christian subcultural “alternatives”… your harvest festivals, your fall carnivals or, if you’re part of a 1st generation Korean church (as we are) your Hallelujah Nights (get it? Hall…elujah… no? hmm)…

Sigh.

It’s not that I mind having an alternative event at the church on Halloween.  These days, it’s nice to have a safe, fun place for kids to gather.  This Friday, we’re going to have an obstacle course bounce house, games and enough candy to send the kids home sugar-wired and tooth-decayed.  It’s always a fun time, and we love spending time with the kids.

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That I actually still post over at Next Gener.Asian Church — check out Our Band Needs a Phonoharp.  Might be some other writing opportunities in the near future… I’ll keep you posted.

In other news, the Detroit Lions — owners of the worst record over the past seven seasons in the NFL (31-84, if you care to share in my pain) — have finally given ol’ Matt Millen the boot.  Hopefully, the Lions can finally stop their automatic three-touchdown deficit (as they’ve falled behind 21-0, 21-0 and 21-3 in their first three games).  I’m not asking for victories, just a little bit of dignity in defeat.